I have to shave again?

I can't believe it's been over 8 months since my diagnosis. Time has really flown by. But this is the time in life that you want to fly by. Not your engagement or when your child is born- it's the chemo and radiation and doctors appointments. Radiation was a breeze. It's just more disruptive then anything. Going to the doctor every freaking day gets really freaking old. But there is a terrible side to chemo being over. I have to shave again. Whhhhaaaat. That's unfortunate. But my eyebrows are coming back in which is a nice treat. It's saving me approximately 76 days over the rest of my life not having to draw those bad boys on anymore. The worst part was when I would get stressed and put my hands on my face and pull my hands away from my face and there's EYEBROW left on my fingers. Or it would smear an eyebrow up and I would look like Rachel Dratch's character from Just Go With It and look perplexed for the rest of the day. I won't miss that. But I will miss effortless nair-smooth legs. I lost my eyelashes towards the end of radiation. A good 2 months after my final chemo. It was a surprise but not as traumatic as losing eyebrows. Losing eyebrows makes you look like sick person. And I wasn't sick. But now what? I just pretend I'm a normal person again? My friend told me that after treatment is when some people really struggle. When the anxiety really kicks in. Because you're no longer actively in treatment to kill cancer. And every lump and bump and every pain scares you. I'm hoping since I'm on IV Herceptin until October, that it will help with the transition out of treatment. Well that and I don't really feel like I have the energy to stress that much. Or the desire to spend any additional time in a doctor's office.

The doctors say it will take a while for my energy to return. I have less energy now then I did during chemo. I spent a lot of time on the treadmill during chemo but I just tried some cardio the other day and it felt like death. And I literally could've been lapped by one of those elderly mall-walkers. They also said the Herceptin can cause fatigue but I flat. out. refuse. to accept that something I'll be on for a year can make me this fatigued. That makes me a little stabby. And then there is my arch-enemy. Tamoxifen. Accepting this fate has been my biggest struggle. My oncologist scheduled several appointments with me just to talk about Tamoxifen because he knew I needed some coaxing. I don't like taking any kind of medication, let alone something I have to take for 10 YEARS. What a complete mind-fuck that is. They used to say 2 years. Then it was 5. Now its 10. Especially for someone my age. I get that it's important for survival, but I'm also concerned about my quality of life as my understanding is that I'm not on my way out. I heard it can come with a lot of side effects, but must be, for the most part, pretty damn tolerable considering everyone and their mom is on it. Although I did hear hair thinning is a possibility. And you must know how that could make me crazy. But I don't really want to know much about it. My Onc offered me the drug fact sheet and I didn't want it. I feel like so many people research drugs and their side effects and then they're constantly scanning their body to see if they're experiencing any of those side effects. I think a lot of it is created in the mind. I just don't get down like that. I don't want to know. We just decided I would let the Dr. know if I was having problems and we'd go from there. Although I'm more the type of person that would stop a medication on my own if I was having problems with it. Or even if I wasn't having problems. Sometimes I just don't feel like taking it anymore. Which is probably why my Dr. said he would be checking my refills because he's scared he'll get in the computer one day and find I haven't refilled my Tamoxifen in a year. He's onto me. Although he did say if I forget it for a day...or several it's no big deal. I know what I'm NOT packing for vacation! I just figured if you miss a day, you just take 2 the next day. That's how birth control works, right?

My family threw a big party when I finished radiation. The tough part was over. And it was so overwhelming to see how many people showed up to celebrate with me. Even family flew into town to surprise me for the home stretch of treatment and for the party. I could relish in that time forever. The people I'm surrounded by are so amazing. They've really picked my up these last 8 months. I hope I never have to repay the favor. I don't think I'm strong enough to be on the other side.

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